One Guy Loved the Church. One Ran It Into the Ground.
What do you want people to say about you in 2,000 years? It's not a trick question. The answer shapes everything in between.
Here is a question worth asking: what do you want people to say about you in 2,000 years?
Not a trick question. Not a guilt trip. A genuine one, because the answer shapes everything that happens in between.
There's a short letter — just 15 verses — that the apostle John wrote to an ordinary man named Gaius. Not a minister. Not an elder. Not a deacon. A layman with enough money and enough character that when John needed to get missionaries into a particular city, Gaius was the guy he called. The guy who would put them up, feed them, and send them on their way with what they needed to keep going. No title. Just a guy who decided that what Jesus was doing in the world mattered enough to spend himself on it.
John writes him a letter — the letter we now call 3 John. Says: I heard about you, and everything I heard made me glad. You are walking in the truth. Keep doing this. The missionaries you've supported have gone out for the sake of Jesus' name, accepting nothing from unbelievers, and that means you are a fellow worker for the truth.
Fellow worker. Not a spectator. Not a donor. A worker. A participant in the thing itself.
And then there's the other guy.
In the same story, same crisis, same historical moment — there's a man named Diotrephes. John doesn't just describe what he did. He invents a word for what he is. One Greek word that means he loves to be first. John almost certainly coined it because no existing word was specific enough. And the picture that word paints is of a man who looked at the most important moment in the life of the early church — a moment when the gospel of Jesus Christ was under assault, when missionaries needed support, when everything was on the line — and thought: how can I use this to build my own little thing?
He turned away John's missionaries. He badmouthed John to the congregation. He kicked out of the church anyone who wanted to welcome them.
A weasel. That's what he is. And 2,000 years later, that's still what he is.
The thing about the story John tells is that both men had the same options. Same moment. Same crisis. Same opportunity. Gaius said: I'm in — how can I help? Diotrephes said: I'm in — how can this serve me?
And the record kept.
You are, right now, in the middle of a story that is bigger than you. The kingdom that Jesus Christ launched and that John was fighting to protect is still going. The gospel is still moving. The people carrying it — whatever form they take today — still need what Gaius gave them: loyalty, resources, and a host who says come on in and rest awhile before you go.
What you do with that opportunity is going to be on record.
You get to be the fellow worker. Or the weasel.
The letter gets written either way.
— tobe